Introducing a new feature: advice from a generation who knew that cheap was cheerful! Kicking us off, the wonderful Granny Ailsa from Bambooty Real Nappies…
I’m a new granny!
I don’t give advice but I’ll tell you a story! Make of it what you will….
I’ve got form – I changed nappies by candlelight! Even my mother didn’t do that!
I was a new mum with a fifteen month old and very pregnant again during “The Winter of Discontent” 1978-79. Power was cut off on rotation and the emergency speed limit instituted to reduce fuel consumption was 50mph.
Breastfeeding was a necessity as I couldn’t afford babymilk.
Disposables? Ha! If only….
I look back and consider myself blessed and privileged. These were happy days as a young family.
So what made it special? Well I made friends with (some of) my neighbours and shared the trials and tribulations of bringing up my children with the other families in my physical community. And we got organised! My children rarely ate on their own. We took turns to cook lunches and children’s tea or organised picnics. I learnt on the job from other mothers. Food was simple and freshly cooked and nothing went to waste.
The mantra of the 70s was – “They’re not left-overs…only ingredients.”
Now 2013 – “The most expensive food you buy is the food you throw away” would have left us incredulous! But, then, they hadn’t, yet, thought up “best before” dates!
Granny Ailsa xx

One of my sister & I’s favourite meals is one my mum had to come up with when she had little ingredients and no money is left over scraps of chicken, rice, sweetcorn, fried onions (layered in your plate w/ rice at the bottom) covered in white sauce. It is so tasty and cheap! Unfortunately neither of our husbands consider it as being a suitable meal!
Thinking about the food. I am a granny of 4 grandsons. When my two sons were tiny, like yours I rarely bought ready food for them as it was so expensive. At the age of 14 months, my eldest was eating our food including mild curries (home made of course), chewing on strips of steak (a treat), and loving jelly and ice cream (simple). I also lived through the power cuts, and with some neighbours we used to cook extra when the power was on, and bring meals to the elderly when they needed them. We looked after each other in all situations. It wasn’t wonderful, but there was a real sense of community and no-one went hungry. My boys have always eaten what was put in front of then and I put that down to eating ‘proper’ food early.
My son was born in the 70s and money was extremely tight as jobs weren’t kept open for Mums in those days. I used to make my own clothes, curtains, duvet covers and sheets and between us my mother-in-law and I made my son’s jumpers and trousers until he was about 5 and he started to wear school uniform. Material these days is more expensive than buying clothes, but we could always revert to unpicking clothese and remaking them into children’s clothes, as my mother-in-law had done for her offspring!
Car boot sales these days are wonderful for snapping up good quality, cheap clothes, toys and household goods. (As a new Grandma I recently bought my little Granddaughter a wonderful Early Learning dolls house with furniture and dolls in perfect condition for £15!)
As for food – my son had what we had but I made sure his food contained little or no salt. As I was no longer working, I had the time to prepare fresh food, so we knew what went into it. It’s cheaper to make a large pot of stew with potatoes than going out buying ready prepared or takeaway food. One of our favourite meals was my Mum’s version of cauliflower cheese – steamed cauliflower placed in an ovenproof dish, covered in potatoes mashed with milk and butter (or low-fat spread) with grated cheese on the top, baked in the oven for about half an hour. You can add slices of tomato or bacon on the top for interest before putting into the oven.
LOVE Granny Ailsa!
I love Granny Ailsa too, and speaking of cloth nappies, I’ve just been on Bambooty real nappies…when did cloth nappies get so cool? It must have been in the last 13 years as my little brother’s cloth nappies were nothing like this! Reuben’s bottom is soon to be a fashion statement…
There’s noticeably a bundle to know about this. I assume you made certain good points in features also.